Back story - the usual, best friends in our early twenties, did everything together, lots of crazy evenings out, also including a very sobering not so nice experience which I got her through and was there for her, propping her up throughout.
She then moved to Oz with her now husband, we (DH and me) went out there twice, friendship still good. Despite the distance was always like yesterday when we did see each other again.
They had children and moved back here to our home town when her second was 2yrs. She had her second a matter of days before me having my first. So when she came back we saw each other a few times but not as much as i thought we would have having been so close prior. we spoke more when she was in Oz than we do now she is 15 mins around the corner!
Have started to think this way after her completely forgetting my b'day, forgetting my dd b'day despite us inviting both her children to her party 2 weeks prior which they turned down and has now forgotton my ds's 1st b'day. I appreciate others birthdays are not the priority in peoples lives but when it comes to us as friends we have never forgotton.
I don't think its a time issue as she is a SAHM with both children in school.
So the next time she sends the usual "whats new" 6 monthly text do I ignore and call time, as close as we were we have never done confrontation with each other. I feel these types of texts are just her being nosey rather than actual caring.
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simplicity2000 · 02/08/2011 16:01
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