We haven't even had the baby yet - due imminently. Still, my husband announced that he had been invited on a stag do to Las Vegas for a week and was clearly excited at the prospect of going although he did acknowledge that this was 'controversial'. So far I have said that I don't want to talk about it at the moment - not least because I though I was having a contraction at the time! My concerns are principally that we have no idea what the needs of our wee one will be and although I will be the parent at home and DD will be out to work, I would expect his support in the evenings and weekends so that I do not lose my sanity altogether. He seems to think that his social life will continue as normal. Then there is the cost - I think the astronomical cost of a week long stag do in Vegas would be better put towards a family holiday for the 3 of us which I think we will be in need of. I don't want to be a nag, but equally I don't want to set an expectation that creates a rod for my own back - I saw that with my parents.
He wanted this baby at least as much as me.
Any advice?
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MonkeyMcNunkey · 02/08/2011 11:21
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