I broke down on the phone to my mum this morning. I'm just completely knackered (DS2 has upped his feeding frequency massively- we co-sleep) and was grabbing a few minutes when DS2 was asleep to have a bath. Of course the phone woke him up, so had about 30 seconds to wash and get out etc. Then when I didn't answer she just kept calling and calling.
I suspected it was her (she never leaves a message and her number doesn't register on 1571), but I was worried it was an emergency. I answered after the 4th call to discover she wanted to talk about painting her ceiling. After about 15 minutes during which DS2 was grizzling constantly (he's VERY needy atm), I looked at the house which is an absolute pit from hell (so much so, I need to spend a good day tidying/cleaning, BEFORE the cleaner comes tomorrow) and said I had a lot on and needed to get on. Cue mum getting dramatically offended (suggesting that maybe she should write me a letter if I don't have time to speak on the phone) to which my reaction was to burst into tears.
It kind of went downhill from there, but when the postman rang the bell I just said I had to go and hung up.
The phone has gone once since (the original call was at about 9), but I just can't face the emotional rehash which will take place when I do speak to her.
I know I am BU as she's likely to be worried about me, but I just can't face it.
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Mishy1234 · 01/08/2011 12:06
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