currently living in Glasgow, looking to move to London. I have 2DDs already, one is almost 4, the next almost 2 and we definitely want to try for our third in the next 3 months or so. But, dh has yet to find a job and has been looking for around 5 months. Its just not happening at the moment. He's been getting interviews but not quite nailing it. He's getting so close and I'm confident he'll get one say in the next 3 to 6 months.
The original plan was to settle in our new home for 3 months then TTC. But now, actually the thought of moving to a new location and starting fresh with 2 DCs already in tow has started to make me feel a bit scared. I've been back here for almost 3 years after around 10 years away and am slowly reconnecting with old friends, making some new mum friends and have both mine and dh's family here. The idea of being here long term though does not appeal for a whole load of reasons. I moved back here when my DD was 3 months so I didn't have friends from ante natal groups. I did have my second DD here and found that it was so much easier having a group of girls to hang out with. its so much harder to break into groups otherwise.
So now I'm unsure about whether we should have our third child in our new location or have it here and look to move in 2 years from now. Having the support we have here will make it all a breeze. But by then, we'll be even more settled (as will our two DDs) and it will be even harder. I'm totally confused! Any words of wisdom?
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peeoffkitty · 30/07/2011 20:53
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