Dd is 9. She has been in a dance show. On the opening night a family member was going to watch so I asked if they would pick her up from the stage door afterwards and bring her home to save me going out late at night.
The show was due to finish at 10pm. However at 10.45pm she still wasn't home. We texted to say what time did you leave and what time will dd be home. We got a text back to say we havn't picked her up - should we have?
So we phoned in a panic saying please tell me you are joking - you have got dd havn't you - no we havnt, why, should we have picked her up was the reply.
So we slammed the phone down and dh ran to the car whilst I ran to the pc to see if I could find the mobile number of the dance teacher. We knew she would be OK in that she would be with someone at the theatre but panic set in - she would be upset, think no-one was coming - teacher would be cross etc etc.
Then the phone rang and it was them - laughing hysterically saying of course we were joking - we have got her. They said we were being stupid for thinking they hadn't got her. I said it wasn't funny - not at that time of night. Dh could have had an accident trying to race to the theatre.
The next day we bought dd PAYG mobile to take to the theatre so we could contact her directly. My parents picked her up for us the next night and said it was useful becasue the show did run over and it took time to get the kids signed out. She texted them when she reached the stage door so they didn't have to wait half an hour in the rain.
AIBU unreasonable to have got her a phoneat such a young age. I really didn;t want to and she has been a bit silly texting her friends so got it confiscated at the weekend.
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AIBU?
To think it isn't funny to pretend you have forgotten to pick a child up at 11pm and to thus abandon my principles and buy dd a mobile
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elphabadefiesgravity · 25/07/2011 23:11
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