WWYD? 14 year old niece (nice girl plus sensible) wants to take ds(very almost 5) out to the library as she wants to spend time with him (tbh think she wants to meet mates there and show him off a bit). Her mum, my SIL, would drive them there and pick them up. It's a medium sized UK town and library in centre.
I'm not totally sold on the idea. I'm quite laid back, not super precious and both DS and niece sensible BUT I suppose if I'm being honest I feel a but cross because:
A) MIL suggested that niece wanted to do this last week. I said wasn't that keen and she like always can't bear to say no to anyone so I now receive email from niece saying granny says she should check with me. (could granny not have told SIL no so I wasn't put on the spot by niece who I may have to directly disappoint).
B) SIL is super precious about her children. When they were similar age I suggested that we babysit (in her house) whilst she had night out and was flatly refused - knew she didn't trust mr with her kids - so why should I trust mine with her 14 year old. She has Also recently told MIL that she has concerns around niece being in town the other day. So why would you throw a 4 year old into the mix.
Don't want to be seen as bad aunty and don't want to upset niece whose intentions are sweet.
Wwyd?
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To say 'no' to 14 year old niece taking my 5 year old out on her own?
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lollystix · 24/07/2011 22:58
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