Back story: My parents split up when I was 4 and my dad moved away as my mum had an affair and it wrecked him. He always kept contact with my sister and me but we saw him about 4 times a year, so we don't have a "normal" father daughter bond. I still see him about that amount now, maybe less, but we speak on the phone 3 or 4 times a month.
Anyway, DH decided a few days ago that as he has some time off next week, and he has 11yo DSD, he would like to go up and visit my dad, and he would like to take his parents too. He has been pestering me for a few days to ring my dad and ask if we can all go up there. I feel really uncomfortable about it, as I know that if someone phoned me with a weeks notice saying that 6 people were coming to stay, I would find it a bit rude TBH.
My dad and his wife have met the IL's a few times, but my dad is 58 and they are 72 and 80 and they don't have that much in common. In addition to that, when my DH mentioned to my dad that he'd like his parents to come and visit, my dad pulled me to one side and said that if they were planning to go to make sure we gave them plenty of notice.
IL's are lovely lovely people, but just a bit dottery and irritating.
DH won't let it lie and keeps going on that it "won't hurt to ask".
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To not want to invite ourselves and the in laws to my dad's house next week?
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EnSuiteShed · 20/07/2011 11:38
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