Well, I have recently found out that a 'friend' is not who I thought she was. I have always been there for her no matter what however I don't feel that I can anymore here's why;
She has parental responsibility for her cousins son, she has had him since he was 6 weeks old (he is 3 now) she says they have adopted him but has told other people different stories so I am unsure, anyway she and her husband have been trying for a baby for about 7 years and last year she finally got pregnant all very exciting and she relied on me to take her to appointments and when her due date came around I took her to the mat unit when she thought she was in labour (3 times a week) and sat with her till sometimes 4am!
When she had the baby my position of friend became redundant, she would say she couldn't see me and avoid me, yet on facebook it was clear she was meeting up with everyone else except from me.
Anyways when she finally had a spare hour she invited me over to meet the baby and to have a catch up, great so I went now when I was there her 3 year old was playing fine with my dd and no problem atall I can't remember exactly what but he did something naughty which a time out would of solved however she did this;
- screamed at him that he was a little retard and to fuck off and leave her alone
-threatened to smack him in the face if he didn't fuck off.
- said she hated him and that he has no place in her family.
Now my opinion from seeing this is that now she has a baby of her own she doesn't want her 'adopted' son anymore, however she has been telling people we mutually know that he has ADHD, I have looked after him on occasions and I really do not think he has this.
She has decided she never wants to see or speak to me again because I don't support her.. I do support her just not when she is abusing a little boy
Aibu to call social services? Or should I get a hv involved?