My Mum has a bit of a history of hysterical behaviour. Shes often paranoid and exagerates stories, gets annoyed at things which happened years ago and brings them up out of context, shouts or snaps for no reason, accuses people of starting arguments that shes started etc. She does have a history of alcoholism.
She came over tonight and said, "Oh I saw your brother earlier. He said when he came over the other night, you didnt even offer him a cup of tea!"
This is a lie. I offered him tea, and some dinner, and actually I doubt that he even said that to her in those exact words. She then told me that she had replied "Oh Knitty sometimes gets stressed with the baby and probably forgot to offer you a drink. Shes done the same to me before."
I really took offense to that. I am not the mother that she was, and I try very hard not to give my son the shambolic upbringing me and my brother had. I might be busy looking after my son, but for her to gossip that Im stressed with my baby really hurt me and I think its a dangerous thing to say. I dont want people to think I am getting stressed out with my son and I told her I want her to be very careful with the words she chooses in future.
She stormed out after crying that I was making her feel guilty. Am I in the wrong here?
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knittynoodle · 15/07/2011 21:48
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