I'll keep this relatively short.
Moved into my new place at the beginning of june. Tw pretty nasty smells in the bungalow-one was a serious damp problem in the bathroom, now sorted after some serious hard work from my DH. The other in DC2 (3yo)and 3's (18 m/o) was a different smell, pretty nasty and gave me a headache-let alone the boys.
Upon a friendly chat over the garden fence with next door neigbour (who is attached to us) I catch a whiff of the "cigarette" he's smoking-low and behold the penny drops with regards to the smell. After a quick consultation with DH, we decide to go in gently and ask him if he smokes cannabis, explain our problem and ask if he minded not smoking it in the back room (which joins onto our boys room). Next door neighbour was fine, admitted he did smoke cannabis and agreed to our request.
Alls fine for 5 days until this morning, when I smell it again, gave him benefit of the doubt-thought maybe he'd wandered in with a joint on the go to put something away. But over the next four hours the smell got stronger, despite the windows being wide open, and lst time I went in there it made me feel a bit sick.
AIBU to now report him to the council (we are both council tenants), my DH and I feel that we probably should as we gave him the chance to do the rightthing, and now we have to do the right thing by our DC's who will be affected by it.
Some points to note before I forget. 1. We live in pre-fabricated bungalows-the walls are only stud walls. 2. Next door neighbour lives on his own, and freely admits he has a drink problem. The drinking in itself has never affected us (we've heard two minor rows which were nothing to write home about)
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icooksocks · 15/07/2011 11:28
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