Just come home from a weekend with the inlaws and whilst it was all very lovely there were one or two moments of...well, ...
DP & I have been together 12 years, have two DCs, and spend a reasonable amount of time with his family. I've always got on well with DPs siblings who both live at the family home now, having finished uni, and they are great with our DCs when we go to stay. BiL is quite a few years younger than I am, and is absolutely hero-worshipped by DS, to the extent that when we stay, DS will sleep in BiLs room. Which brings us to the first weirdness...
I'd taken DS up to his bed (zedbed type affair next to BiLs double bed), and I was semi-lying on BiLs bed, reading the story when BiL came in. I said I'd just finish the chapter and then go (assuming he wanted to change or something as he was planning to go out), he said fine, pootled about a bit, then laid down on the bed I was already on, apparently ready to go to sleep. I felt a self-conscious about this, but just finished reading, saw that DS was asleep and left.
Then when we were leaving, I was in the living room with both DCs and BiL. Kids said goodbye to BiL, I went to give him a distanced hug and peck on the cheek (usual method of saying 'hello' and 'goodbye' to all members of DPs family), when he put his arms around me and kissed the top of my head (DPs family are all much, much taller than I am, as I am an utter short arse). I said 'Thanks very much for a great weekend and for keeping the kids entertained' (actually I said it into his chest as still had his arms around me), went to give him the usual peck on the cheek and at that precise moment, he turned his head and kissed me full on the lips. It felt very weird and very wrong.
I really can't decide if I'm being oversensitive and blowing this out of all proportion, or if he's being slightly inappropriate, but I feel very, very odd about it.
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iceandsliceplease · 11/07/2011 13:11
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