More of a wwyd really. I would genuinally appreciate some advice.
I have a very close friend who had her second baby girl 5 months ago, she already has a 4 and a half year old daughter.
What is concerning me is my friends behaviour towards her second DD.
She shouts at the baby, only holds her when feeding her and even then holds her at arms length- sometimes even feeding the baby on the floor with the baby led down flat, she says the baby isnt clingy, doesnt need to be held and would rather be on her own. She covers her up in her pushchair with a screen by which the baby cannot be seen- I appreciate this is a sun shade but the baby is covered up like this all the time even when awake and indoors.
She constantly puts the baby out of sight and frequently puts her to sleep upstairs alone on her bed even though the baby can roll over.
On the other hand her first daughter is constantly hugged and picked up- never told off when she has done wrong and constantly complemented- I appreciate that she may be trying to help her first DD to deal with having a new sister but her second DD needs her too. She has mentioned that she wanted a boy the second time around and she thought her little one was a boy- she says she cant cope with girls.
The baby herself is very small for her age, grizzly and often looks dirty.
I am honestly writing this for some advice, I am not in judgement of her I just want to help.
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Freddiesfling · 11/07/2011 10:13
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