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To think its wierd that DP doesn't want to share his social life with me?

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DannynSandy Sun 10-Jul-11 22:24:03

Was just checking in DPs email for a booking I made using his address and noticed 3 different events he has been invited to and has agreed to go to. One is an Ice Hockey game with loads of people so obviously wouldn't be put out by him brininging someone with him, another was a 50th birdathy party which specifically said to bring partners along and the other was a pint and burger meet up which again said to bring whoever along. What gets me is that he has pre-excused these dates with me, the ice hockey one he reckons is just for old school friends like a school reuninion type thing, the 50th party he tells me is just a small get together and it would be "awkward" taking someone along that nobody else knew and the burger thing he said was one of those things that was mainly blokes but I saw the invite and the people attending ad half were women. So he wants to keep his social life private but AIBU to think this is a little unfair? I always try to involve him in mine.

worraliberty Sun 10-Jul-11 22:26:38

How do you act when you're out together?

Do you have a similar sense of humour? Are you normally happy and smiley?

DannynSandy Sun 10-Jul-11 22:28:50

Yes I am, I'm a sociable person, not too loud but polite and friendly.

worraliberty Sun 10-Jul-11 22:32:37

I was just thinking because DH's workmate's wife, does his head in when they go out.

She restricts his drinking and eating, makes a cats bum face when he swears or tells a slightly rude joke...and generally sits there looking like a slapped arse, watching the clock and dragging him home early.

But if you're polite and friendly to his friends, I just don't know confused

MorticiaAddams Sun 10-Jul-11 22:42:54

The only way to find out is by asking him but then you will have to own up to reading his private e-mails...

mauricetinkler Sun 10-Jul-11 22:45:03

Sounds like he has a roving eye to me.

Kewcumber Sun 10-Jul-11 22:51:29

Is he really DP or is be just a boyfriend? Because I had one just like this - it didn't lady because I mistakenly thought he was.my partner - he wad just marking g time until something better came along.

Sorry but it rings loud familiar bells for me

Kewcumber Sun 10-Jul-11 22:52:30

Didn't LAST not lady! Bloody phone

AnyFucker Sun 10-Jul-11 22:55:05

he's just not that into you

best you know now, so you can act accordingly

FabbyChic Sun 10-Jul-11 23:00:12

I agree with AF, if he was proud to be with you he would want to show you off.

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