I've been seeing someone for around 6 months, we dont live together and only see each other around once a fortnight, sometimes for a few hours one day during the week too if we both manage to have the same day off. Our main form of contact is via text message and skype. I go online almost every other evening and he comes on around 6pm which is too early as I'm usually busy around then and he says he'll come back on later but he then comes on about 10 minutes before he goes to bed. Take today for instance I went out for the day with the kids to a place with no phone signal. When I got home about 4pm I had two texts on my phone, one sent around lunch time saying "what you upto today?" and then another one sent around 4pm saying "Whats wrong? you've not replied to me text all day :-( " so I replied explaining why I didn't text back. I put skype on and he's on there and we chat for around 10 minutes and then he says he's going to make dinner but he'll be back on later. So from 7pm to 9pm I sit there with the laptop on waiting like an idiot. By 9.45 I text him and ask if he's still coming online. He texts back saying he's been watching the rugby and he'll come online but only for a bit as he's tired and is going to bed soon!! You'd think with this being our only contact he'd make more effort??? or am I being too needy?
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To think he is making little effort these days
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RiverJordan · 10/07/2011 22:04
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