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to absolutely veto DDs plans for Newquay after GCSEs next year?

(107 Posts)
AtYourCervix Sun 10-Jul-11 21:54:10

Apparently all teenagers go to Newquay after GCSEs. Absolutely everyone.

I have said 'No'. I mean No.

I am a neglectful relaxed kind on mother but Ithe line must be drawn somewhere and this is it.

AIBU?

bumpsoon Sun 10-Jul-11 21:55:43

YANBU but dont expect DD to understand that until her kids are the same age

worraliberty Sun 10-Jul-11 21:55:58

I don't know.

What goes on in Newquay?

YANBU. If this insanity is still in vogue when the DS's are 16, they will not be going.

sharbie Sun 10-Jul-11 21:57:50

no no no no no no

AtYourCervix Sun 10-Jul-11 21:57:52

What doesn't 'go on' in Newquay?

I suspect some underage drinking, shagging and illicit/illegal substance misuse.

yes it might be fun, but no, i don't want my baby doing it.

BeerTricksPotter Sun 10-Jul-11 21:58:04

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AtYourCervix Sun 10-Jul-11 21:58:25

and this is a year in advance.

No now, and No then.

bellavita Sun 10-Jul-11 21:58:31

Lots of drinking apparently according to a documentary I watched a while back.

worraliberty Sun 10-Jul-11 21:58:40

Is it some sort of festival or something?

BeerTricksPotter Sun 10-Jul-11 21:59:20

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manicinsomniac Sun 10-Jul-11 21:59:30

next year?

why don't you tell her that you'll think about it during the year and see how mature and responsible she is by this time next year.

Then, next year, if you feel the same - say no! grin

NotSuchASmugMarriedNow Sun 10-Jul-11 22:00:32

I dunno I kinda think that people who do all their rebelling and naughtiness and bad behaviour at 16 have got it all out of their system by the time the hit their 20's.

illagain Sun 10-Jul-11 22:00:33

i went it was fab drinking, hangover learnt a lot survived missed my mum

AtYourCervix Sun 10-Jul-11 22:00:58

problem is she is so very straight and sensible i can't use that against her. but every fibre in my soul says no.

bibbitybobbityhat Sun 10-Jul-11 22:01:37

Yanbu. God, I feel so sorry for the day to day folk of Newquay.

PonceyMcPonce Sun 10-Jul-11 22:02:07

God, you just don't understand do you?
She will have been working soooooo hard for years and just wants to have some fun.

But you want to ruin it don't you?
It won't even cost you more than £700.
But you are just to selfish to let her go, because you are butter and jealous and don't want her to have fun.

God, I don't know why you even had kids if you want to mKe them so unhappy.

Bitch

<<poncery slams door and stomps off>>

PonceyMcPonce Sun 10-Jul-11 22:02:52

Ooops too selfish and bitter

buttonandjess Sun 10-Jul-11 22:04:34

YA definitely NBU - you have to draw the line somewhere and this is it. She may thank you one day - although I imagine this may take 20 years!!!

AtYourCervix Sun 10-Jul-11 22:08:24

Poncy - are you channeling my DD?

PonceyMcPonce Sun 10-Jul-11 22:12:29

My nephew actually!

Any similarities?

Thruaglassdarkly Sun 10-Jul-11 22:12:58

My DDs would have to kill me first. YADNBU!!!

Thruaglassdarkly Sun 10-Jul-11 22:13:52

...before I let them go, not before I vetoed it. Sorry.

thekidsmom Sun 10-Jul-11 22:15:34

Definitely not! We put our foot down over the same thing 2 years ago. And that was the year 2 kids died in separate drunken accidents.

There is nothing to do there after dark except drink and the clubs wont let them in without ID so they all go to the beach where it all happens....

squeakytoy Sun 10-Jul-11 22:15:40

Newquay is the UK equivalent of Ibiza.... drink, drugs, vomiting, lots of arrests... underage drinking, the occasional death due to idiotic drunken behavour, and lots of stomach pumping.

I wouldnt let my teen go, or if they did, I would go with them and completely piss on their parade.

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