I usually give a kiss on the cheek and a bit of a hug, depending on how fond I am of the friend.
I have this one friend though who we see maybe three or four times a year with her dh and their dcs. Every single time she says good bye, dh said she kisses him on the lips - the same way you'd kiss someone on the cheek - and presses her whole body up against him. I pooh poohed this to dh and asked him why he let her if if was a problem . I'd never seen it happen and never put any thought to it.
Today though, I saw it and her coy smile to him afters. Dh said he's going to hold the baby next time so she can't do it although he did say, "Yep, weird. Woah, those are big tits though." Marvellous, isn't it? Then she kept turning round to wave as they left the park. It was only me turning to wave back mind.
I wonder if this is normal behaviour - dh thinks it's not and says he isn't comfortable with it (ho hum) - and if I'm over reacting because I think it's odd and disrespectful.
If I see it again, what should I say?
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MilkMonitor · 09/07/2011 23:12
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