I am a first time poster, joined a while ago but too shy to post . Basically me and my DP are friends with a couple who have a one year old daughter. We are both godparents to this little girl.
Recently our friends took her to the coast for a day and took no sun cream with her and she ended up badly sun burned. They then took her to a BBQ hosted by mutual friends that me a DP attended. Understandably, I was horrified when I saw her and expressed my concern and thought she needed to be checked out by a doctor. They thought I was over reacting.
On Thursday, they had a knock on the door from SS who say someone had contacted them because they were concerned about their DD's sunburn. They were both angry and have been demanding to know who called them. I was as shocked as they were and tried my best to be supportive.
However, yesterday I logged on to my facebook to see the most vile abuse being posted on my wall by my friend's (the mother's) younger sister. She accused me of being the one who made the call to SS and then started to post how I was having an affair with a 52 year old man behind my DP's back and other vile things. I deleted my facebook automatically.
I then tried to talk to my friend's and their attitude was I should take it up with the sister. I tried to explain that I didnt know this girl and that because she was 17 she was a child and it was not my place. They couldnt understand why I was so upset about what has happened. I tried to explain to them that I am a trainee teacher and me and my DP have family on there that can see this stuff and it is not on. They told me that I should be grateful that it wasnt worse and that I should be thankful SS didnt come knocking on my door.
I just cant believe that the "good" friends of mine havent even bothered to put this sister straight and tell her she is wrong with her accusations. I'm so upset and embarrased. My DP has had his brother on the phone asking if I have really had an affair and I am mortified.
I am so sorry for the long post but I needed to get it off my chest and I needed to know if I was BU for being so upset or if I was over reacting.
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WomanDriver · 09/07/2011 13:32
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