Situation is friend of dh invited us to a bbq next weekend with 2 months notice. They offered a very narrow selection of dates as they're very busy. We agreed to one, but I did feel a bit pinned down.
Background is old school friend of dh, used to see a lot of each other, only contact they've had over the past 5 years is when I've chivvied; I've probably only met him 5 times and his dw 3 times since they met 6 years ago. My dh doesn't actually like him very much tbh and they wouldn't be in contact if all communications had been left to him.
We've now been invited to an event on the same day by some close friends of mine who I haven't seen for ages and want to catch up with.
I know it's mean, but I want to apologise to dh's friend and suggest that we make another time (occasion only involves us and isn't an event) and go the one-off event we've been invited to. I am usually a 'keep to my word' sort of person so don't know why I don't want to on this occasion - maybe because I actually like my friends (and so does dh) and we could arrange another time for a get together with his friend?
I know we should go to see dh's friends but tbh I feel resentful about missing our on the event.
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Rosebud05 · 08/07/2011 22:15
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