my cleaning lady that I had told her not to talk to her. (Alot, anyway).
I love my cleaning lady, she's brilliant...I know this comment would have hurt her feelings though and was really embrassed that MIL has said this to her.
My MIL comes and stays with us twice per year, she is very critical, of me, DH, our ways, our parenting, in contrast to her other DS, who she does everything for.... I can never do right and she has never ever actually done anything for us and never lifts a finger to help.
EVEN when I had my DS who had jaundice and was constantly feeding and I hadn't slept really in 6 weeks, she came to visit us, complained about sitting around doing nothing nothing and wanted to go to Harrods etc sightseeing but wouldn't go on her own so I ended up walking to Harrods with 6 week old DS in a sate of shattereness. She didn't even make a cup of tea for herself never mind me, just sat there being waited on hand and foot.
I am never sure if she is just a really nasty piece of passive agressive troublemaker or is just so insular that she never thinks about other peoples feeings....as the years go on I suspect it's more the former though.
Sorry for long rant.....
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ohanotherone · 08/07/2011 11:34
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