OK, DS has been going to nursery since he was 10 months old, just turned 4. Has a younger brother and sister so by no means unsociable - quite the opposite in fact, very chatty, bright little man.
Today we visited a soft play centre we had not been to before, quite a few of the boys there seemed to enjoy going around pushing and punching (to my horror) the other children rather than actually play and I am talking pre-schoolers btw too.
I'm unsure if I have actually taught my DC not to do this to other children or if its just not in their nature, maybe a bit of both. But I do say unsure because I have no memory of having to tell them not to and when we go to these kind of places I do keep a keen watchful eye on them. Anyway at this point in both my boys lives they don't do it but who knows what the future holds!
I hate violence of any kind but watching my DS get aggressively pushed to the ground twice today and I do mean aggressively i.e both hands on the shoulders and a real good shove for absolutely no reason - we had literally just arrived, he got to top of slide, stood up to go down and this happened to him. I am now worried about him starting school in sept and will he become a victim? He doesn't cry about these kind of things, just picks himself up, dusts himself down and goes about his business.
What do you teach your child to do? I just can't see myself telling him to "hit him back" as it goes against my principals but I don't want him to become the one that runs to tell the teacher all the time either......I also heard bullies pick on the ones that don't retaliate and the minute the bullied child finally is pushed to their limits and does retaliate said bully moves on....
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On the cusp of starting school this sept and left wondering about standing up for yourself after today....
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glittercheeks · 07/07/2011 21:56
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