we have been invited out for a birthday dinner with inlaws and their children to celebrate mil's birthday.
Mil & Fil regularly care for my inlaws children whilst they are at work so I think inlaws see this as a nice way to repay them.
But, whilst my children eat well, my inlaws children are picky eaters and will order things that hardly get touched, they will then go on to order desert and pick at that.
Now I couldnt really care about what they do or dont eat, but when my inlaws are suggesting that we split the bill so that its a treat for mil & fil then it really gets my goat that I am paying for food that I know will be hardly touched.
Also, I have already bought a present for my mil and we are hardly flush with money at the moment so I could do without this. I have asked inlaws if the restaurant they have chosen is expensive and they said its reasonable but suggested that they could pay for inlaws and we just pay for ourselves. Problem is, I would feel really mean not halving the bill in front of mil & fil, they are really nice people and help us alot, with child care & treat us financially sometimes aswell. I think the main gripe with me is that I get aggravated at paying for food that I know full well wont be eaten.
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startofnewterm · 07/07/2011 18:37
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