I don't know what to do, dc3 have never found out before and it has never been an issue and we've always loved having a surprise. This time, Dh is very involved and excited, all very lovely as this baby was unplanned.
The thing is he really wants to find out, he isn't being at all pushy but i know he'd like to know. I've told him he can find out and not tell me if he likes but he isn't so keen as he thinks he'll let it slip. My reason for not knowing is mainly that at the end of previous hard labours it has been the most lovely experience to have a unexpected child of each sex, got it wrong myself both times. He has no preference either way ( or at least that's what he says).
Scan this afternoon and i don't know what to do? Should i just be selfish?
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To not find out the sex of my baby today?
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magicmelons · 07/07/2011 08:32
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