DP (soon to be DH)'s brother and SIL have just had a baby. DP is planning to go and visit them this weekend to say hello to the newborn.
I was planning to go to a conference, but didn't manage to get tickets before they sold out. I haven't told DP this yet.
DP and I don't live together, and I tend to spend weeks at my place and weekends at his. IOW we usually spend weekends together so this one would have been unusual. As my plans of changed, I feel like I should tell DP my conference isn't on any more, and go with him to Liverpool (a 3 hour drive minimum) to see the new baby. But I don't really want to. I could really do with a couple of days at home to sleep, do housework and catch up on my studying (I juggle work and part-time study) and life admin.
AIBU to consider keeping quiet and staying at home? I mean, babies are very sweet and everything but won't SIL-to-be just basically be quite knackered and overwhelmed 7 days after the birth? Or am I being a bad, selfish, unfamily-ish person?
I do believe it's generally a Good Thing to make the effort where family is concerned, but am just so effing busy at the moment I could do with a weekend not dashing around the countryside.
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AIBU?
to not really want to do a 6-hour round trip this w/e to see newborn niece?
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OTheHugeManatee · 06/07/2011 12:58
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