Hi, I'll try to keep a long story short. My DH is Sikh and we have been married for 4 years and have two beautiful kids. My DH parents have never really accepted me due to the fact that I'm not Indian. At the beginning of our relationship they still took calls from other families trying to arrange dates/meetings with my DH (then boyfriend with a view to potential marriage) whilst in was in their house!. They asked me to wear a wedding ring when we weren't married but lived together ( which I refused!) and told family members we were married when we weren't at the time.
I have tried to make them like me and have even attempted to learn Punjabi, things did get slightly better when DS came along but 3 years on and I feel I'm back to square one. They visit every other weekend and stay over (and take over!), his mother treats me like a kitchen maid and orders me around in my own house, they have walked out on me saying I have offended their religion when I refused to put up a picture in our house that they brought with them of their sacred guru ( my DH is not a practising Sikh) and now they have given up talking English in front of me and leave answer messages in Punjabi only. To say I hate them is an understatement, I really don't know what else I can do, I feel I'm constantly moaning and having arguments with my DH about them, he agrees with me most of the time but doesn't back me up or is too afraid to upset his family, I'm at the point where I just wish they just didn't exist, I don't want my relationship to fail because of them but I can't see how it will ever get better.
AIBU?
AIBU To hate my DH parents!
jasminder1 · 05/07/2011 18:34
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