I met a lovely lady through where I used to work, we started at the same time and got on really well. I found out 2 months into working there that I was pregnant with dd, we would spend a lot of time together and I was very happy to finally have a true friend.
Then things started to change, when I had dd she came to see us a few times and I would meet her on her lunch, I even asked her to be dd's god parent. Anyways things fizzled out and I would never get a reply from her by text or she wouldn't call me back when I tried to arrange anything yet on facebook she was always putting status updates about meeting up with other friends and going out on the piss etc.
In january I had a nervous breakdown, she text me once and when I asked her to meet up she said she had housework to do, and then other excuses like her dp wouldn't let her or she didn't have time, yet was still seeing and making time for other friends.
About 2 months ago she asked if I would join a gym with her, I want to loose weight so said yea, we joined up and I wanted to go 3 times a week to get our moneys worth, she only wanted to go once a week and it had to fit around her dp. A few weeks in I got a new job and had to tell her I couldn't go to the gym anymore she was pissed off and blamed me for making her join (she asked me)
I am waffling a bit. I am so fed up of her putting me off and never making anytime for me yet she has time for everyone else? Aibu?
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hellospoon · 05/07/2011 11:07
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