Until I had a baby a few months ago I had a fab relationship with MiL, better than my own parents. I loved them, they loved me and we enjoyed spending time together as a family. Since the baby the dynamics have changed remarkably. I sometimes worry that I am oversensitive or have post natal depression as almost every time I see MiL she does something to drive me nuts... E.g waking up the baby to play when I've finally got baby to sleep (which is a mission!), helping to tidy up but does everything her way (including putting things in the wrong place repeatedly), onlyever buys baby gifts which are on sale mainly from pdimark (don't get me wrong, I love prim ark, but not everything needs to come from there), I said I would clean baby after she was sick at her christening and MiL grabbed the muslin from my hand... Literally tug of war, repeated backhanded compliments about my weight- absolute shock that I fit pre preggers clothes even tho I already told her I weigh less than pre baby, and comments that ive lost NEARLY all the baby weight ( have lost it all) which I tried to take as a compliment so rather than gloat said yes vie lost it all just need to tone up and she said yes on your stomach! I am five ft eight and weigh eight stone... Hardly fat! Tries to pass off thirty year old baby clothes from her own kids as new, actually lies, and also makes own clothes for baby and pretends they are bought. I suppose none of it is sinister or malicious but it just keeps irritating me.
Help, I'm going out of my mind and DH is fed up of me moaning after each visit. We've agreed to a time out but now I look like an evil wench prising DH away when vie never issued any ultimatum just get annoyed after each visit
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Am getting peeved by every little thing MiL does...
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Angel786 · 04/07/2011 17:03
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