""I also disagree strongly with some of the more radical feminist views."
LIKE WHAT? PLEASE SOMEBODY TELL ME!!!!!!!!!!"
As Seeker was questioning that quote from me, i thought I'd better reply (actually this is my second attempt at replying - the first one went 'poo' when MN logged me out - I've made sure to type the second on in Word first, in case it happens again)
I don?t agree with the way that radical feminists view the Patriarchy as the root of all evil and believe that the focus should be on overthrowing it as the only way to achieve equality of the sexes.
It is a very black and white view of what patriarchy is, as well as making it sound tangible, like some sort of terrifying deity rather than the social construct which it is. Patriarchy is actually much more nuanced and is compiled from the biological, instinctual, social and cultural. In order to understand the issues and effect change you have to separate the biological and instinctual which we can do little about if the human race is to survive from the social and cultural which can be changed. It doesn?t matter that we have sentience and intelligence, we are still subject to natural laws in many many ways. This idea that inequality comes from standardised gender roles perpetrated by the patriarchy and it would all be OK if only we could get rid of them is a nonsense because at least some of the standardised gender roles are down to biological necessity.
I?ve heard a lot from radical feminism about how the patriarchy should be overthrown, but nothing about what it should be replaced with. Like it or not, we are part of nature and therefore subject to survival of the fittest which means that something / someone will always be dominant. There can?t just be nothing. If the patriarchy were overthrown, something would take it?s place ? as Aristotle said ?Nature abhors a vacuum?. What would that be ? matriarchy, class, intelligence? Nothing seems to be forthcoming from the RadFem camp on that and it is highly likely that any alternative would have it?s own set of losers / oppressed people. If the patriarchy were overthrown it would not result in equality, hugs, kisses and fluffy bunnies, it would be bloody, messy and have no guarantee that those who are oppressed now would not be oppressed under the new system, it would just be a different group of oppressors.
For these reasons, I think RadFems are very much in danger of throwing the baby out with bath water, so to speak.
I also strongly disagree with the RadFem perspective that they way to equality is through revolution and militancy. This may still be a requirement in some developing and middle eastern countries ? although I think they have more fundamental human rights issues that need to be addressed before they start thinking about overthrowing the patriarchy. In western societies where women already have a foot in the door when it comes to political and societal power ? we need to be using that along with discussion, negotiation, campaigning and education to right inequality wrongs and further gender equality. Rather than trying to radically re-order society from a militant view point we should be changing things from the inside out.
On a micro level, I disagree with some of the RadFem view points around rape and prostitution ? again, these are areas which are no where near as black and white as some RadFems would like to believe (e.g. the Bristol Palin thread). I have also heard the viewpoint from some RadFems both on MN and elsewhere that inequalities suffered by men either directly or as a result of gains made by women are unimportant because men have had the upper hand for so long.
This is why I prefer equalism because it specifically states that the fight for equality should not be about making changes to account for past wrongs.
Thankfully, radical feminism is not a dominant ideology ? even though it sometimes seems like it on MN because it is the RadFems who shout the loudest.
It is telling that this thread has become such an interesting debate, generally without resorting to insults, huffs and recriminations about other people?s viewpoint, that apart from the few hours it spent in the feminism section, the MN RadFems (or at least those that I perceive to be RadFems from their posts) are conspicuous by their absence. There is no way this debate would have continued in such a reasoned way, if the thread had not been moved back out of the section. It certainly wouldn't have made 1000+ posts
Maybe if the liberal feminists and the equalists could all work together where their philosophies, ideologies and wants converge, with a understanding respectfulness of our differences we could get to a state of gender equality much quicker, without resorting to hand wringing about why women who want equality can?t just tow the party line and call themselves feminists and without wasting time and energy in having to battle the extremists on either side.