So our friend is a single mum (husband being a fuckwit who keeps coming back and then running off again) and she has an 8 year old DS.
Her DS has unfortunately been stuck in the middle of some pretty nasty arguments/fights between his mum and dad. He's also seen, by his mum, as a mini version of his dad. She's openly said, in front of him that she wants to go out and go to parties but there is a "burden hanging around her neck". He's well aware who she means.
His computer (that he uses for homework etc) has been having problems recently, so my DH has offered to do what he can to fix it. As he's been doing this he's discovered that one of the parts needs replacing, and if the part isn't replaced it is most likely going to break all the other parts.
So he's pointed out to her that if she replaces that part (£25), then the computer should continue working for a lot longer. If she doesn't, and it breaks, then she'll have to replace the whole computer (more like £300). Now she has her own computer, which her DS is forbidden to use.
Her response is, "if I can't afford a new computer, why should I spend money on my DS's computer"
She always manages to find money for her nights out though.
Now I know we're BU for judging what she spends her money on, so there's no point telling me that. But I feel so bad for her poor DS who is constantly being told (or shown) that he's just an inconvenience to her.
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Empusa · 03/07/2011 15:28
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