I took DS to a 'pleasure park' today. It's a fair size, with a park, miniature train, ponies, paddling pool etc. It has no traffic inside. It has a play area which is fenced off.
I was ignoring watching DS play and saw a woman come into the play area with a toddler on reins. Boy was 18mo-2yo. He was straining to get away and play but she didn't take the reins off. She lifted him onto the slide (instead of letting him climb the steps) and walked alongside him on the (very safe) walkway bit, sticking her hands over so she was touching him at all times. She manhandled him onto the top of the slide and yanked the reins back when he got to the bottom. After his one allotted slide she carried him to the seesaw, sat on the same side as him and bounced for a few seconds, got off, walked him round the park a bit then left.
Her P was sitting on a bench watching.
The whole park is incredibly safe, presuming you watch your child a normal amount. The play area is very modern and not massive. Can there be any reason for behaving like this? I suppose it could be due to MH issues, but I can't imagine why SN would mean she needed to restrict him like that.
I freely admit I judged, but it really was too sad and I just felt so much for this poor little boy.
AIBU?
to judge this family in the park?
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