Long backstory, difficult relationship, she's gone away for the summer and for the second year running she hasn't sent a card, just a text saying 'Happy Birthday to you'. No contact from rest of family.
The problem is with all of this that the text (as it did last year) just upsets me. Instead of having a nice day, I am filled with doubt over my decision making to limit the impact she has on my life, start worrying that everything is my fault again, in keeping with the reaction of a person who has had and still has an emotionally abusive relationship with her mum.
When is enough enough?
AIBU to stop facilitating any relationship she is prepared to have with my children (if I didn't take them to her whenever she can be bothered to see them, she wouldn't see them.)
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So today is my birthday - AIBU to wish my mum would F*** off?
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FannyAdamsToo · 03/07/2011 12:12
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