Ex hasn't seen DC1 in years.No cards,phone calls,maintenence,nothing.He contacted me last week asking to visit DC.I said yes after much thought,so DC and I met him in town.Meeting went ok,DC didn't seem too interested in him to be honest.
He rang this evening demanding DC stay overnight every weekend.I kindly explained that as he is practically a stranger to DC it would be better to build a relationship and trust first so that DC would be comfortable staying.
He lost it.Called me all the names under the sun,its my fault DC dosen't know him,I should have been talking about him as she grew up etc etc and that he will see me in court.
So I said I'll see you then and added that he can send on the cheque for half of DC's costs for the last 9 years.
DC calls DH dad,knows hes not real dad but likes to call him that.He gets the fathers day cards,was there for the first day of school,takes her to gymnastics and dancing.
I'm just pissed off that now Ex is showing interest in being part of DC's life when I and later DH have picked up his slack for nine years.
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To think that Ex deserves a huge kick in the face!
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BumWiper · 30/06/2011 22:44
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