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AIBU?

To think DP's nickname for me is really disrespectful?

68 replies

QueenofHeartz · 30/06/2011 15:21

DP calls me his little cum-bucket. I didn't mind at first because I didn't realise what it meant (I thought he was saying come-bucket although I realise that doesn't make sense) but he's saying it outside of the home too which is even worse. I saw him writing a text to his mate who we're going out with at the weekend and he refered to me as "cb". He denies it was short for cum-bucket but refused to say what else it could mean!

AIBU?? It makes me cringe.

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ThatVikRinA22 · 30/06/2011 15:22

yuk.
and yuk.

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mad4mainecoons · 30/06/2011 15:23

omg! that makes me shudder! Shock

how long have you been together? has he always called you that!

yuk! YANBU its horrid and i would REALLY object to being called that!

Poor you Sad

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WineAndPizza · 30/06/2011 15:24

Is this a joke?? Why do you let him call you that? It is beyond insulting...he is reducing you to an object for him to wank into.

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BettySwollocksandaCrustyRack · 30/06/2011 15:24

thats horrid, it would make me cringe as well. It would be bad enough if it was a name he used just for you but to actually share it with his mates Shock.......start calling him "spunk bank"...maybe he will then change his name for you

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Pootles2010 · 30/06/2011 15:25

Thats foul. It really is repulsive. I don't think I could be with him tbh.

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HettyAmaretti · 30/06/2011 15:25

YANBU. Revolting and disrespectful. It'd be bad enough if you didn't object but considering you do it's totally out of order.

Have you made you feelings about it totally clear?

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Tchootnika · 30/06/2011 15:26

Gawd, worse than Me Little Cock Jockey.
Gross.
Ask him to call you Jamez, in future. Politely, though.

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fuzzpig · 30/06/2011 15:26

Euw.

Time to give him a new nickname - dildo maybe? Although maybe he'd take that as a compliment Hmm

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ashamedandconfused · 30/06/2011 15:26

is this genuine?? someone would actually use that gross term?? to their partner , thinking it was a cute NN??

the kind of man who uses this term at all, never mind about and to the woman he loves, is not the kind of man I want to know

bleurgh!!!

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WriterofDreams · 30/06/2011 15:26

Yuck. YANBU. He might as well call you "toilet."

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Lady1nTheRadiator · 30/06/2011 15:27

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MrsTwinks · 30/06/2011 15:27

YANBU, if it were me he'd be xp. that is not an acceptable nickname for someone you love its what I call my boss when im reallly annoyed with her nasty

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LyingWitchInTheWardrobe2726 · 30/06/2011 15:27

You're being unreasonable to be even on nodding terms with somebody like that. Does DP stand for 'dreadful prat'?

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Fifis25StottieCakes · 30/06/2011 15:29

OMG i hope he doesnt call you this in front of people

What a wanksplash

Just urgh

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AuntieMonica · 30/06/2011 15:30

i've seen this so many times on MN, but this time i mean it


Leave the bastard.


that's one of the most disrespectful things i've heard. revolting person.

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controlpantsandgladrags · 30/06/2011 15:30

The man obviously has no respect for you at all. Do you have a good relationship?

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ashamedandconfused · 30/06/2011 15:31

the text means its an in joke with his mates - what kind of guy is this?? and why are you with him??

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PeopleCallMeTricky · 30/06/2011 15:31

S-T-R-E-T-C-H

SNAP

TWANGGGG

(Sorry that was just my credulity)

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itisnearlysummer · 30/06/2011 15:32

Part of me doesn't believe this, but part of me thinks I have 'encountered' men who would say this.

Although I have been out with some pretty choice individuals in my life, none of them were ever this vulgar or disrespectful.

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Crosshair · 30/06/2011 15:34

woah

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pollyblue · 30/06/2011 15:34

If you don't like it and have said so but he's till saying it then, yep, of course that's not on.

Try nicknaming him your Little Dick and see how that goes down....

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sims2fan · 30/06/2011 15:35

Yuk that's horrible. I know someone who publically refers to his partner on Facebook as 'sugartits' which I thought was awful, but that's far worse.

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DuelingFanjo · 30/06/2011 15:36

really, o dear. That is unbelievable. I really didn't think this kind of thing happened in real life.

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LadyClariceCannockMonty · 30/06/2011 15:36

Vile. Using it to his mates is just insult to injury.

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Hullygully · 30/06/2011 15:37

I don't believe you.

Unless you are an utter doormat fuckwit?

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