It is a large, indoor pool with no shallow end, and is directly accessable from both the house and the garden.
Ds and ds will be visiting her for a weekend while I am away. On previous visits, I have always felt that MIL is not particularly bothered about the pool, and has a very relaxed "oh we'll keep an eye on him" attitude. Dh seems fine about it.
I am not generally a worrier, and I am usually able to assess risks and then decide whether ds can do something (ie NOT very pfb). However, I keep thinking that it would be very easy for him to wander into there, as I said it is easily accessable from both the house and the garden, and basically if he fell in he would not have a chance.
To be fair, when not in use, the pool is covered with a plastic sheeting. I do not think it would hold up much more than a beach ball though, if you pushed on it.
MIL also has an uncovered garden pond which I know from bitter experience is surprisingly deep (not realising it was there last winter when we visited and everything was covered in snow, I walked across the garden, fell through the ice and ended up hip-deep in freezing water. It was not a nice experience...and now I come to think of it, perhaps is colouring my judgement on the whole thing).
Am I being a bit overly-cautious? I am panicking just thinking about it, which is very unlike me.
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AIBU?
AIBU to think that MIL's pool house should be kept locked during the time ds(4) visits?
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HopeForTheBest · 30/06/2011 09:52
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