I posted last night ion the relatonships forum and the lovley ladies there gave me some great advice. link
But I just needed a few more opinions on specifically the use of AD in an adbusive realtionship.
DH is suffering from disassociatve amnesia, this means virtaully no short term memory, but also apathy, lack of empathy and mood swings. But he can also be ( and is most of the time, so long as I keep him "sweet"") a lovley man.
He is really nasty only to me and I have just had enough.
My options are ( and I am VERY open to other suggestions)
a) He leaves ( though he is unable to live on his own so I just don't know how that will work)
b) I leave with the DC ( same issues as above but the 5 of us are in a caravan)
c) I go on AD so I don't care about his behaviour
d) I get counselling so I can "deal" with it all.
On the other thread the message , loud and clear, was that abusive behaviour is NOT excused by illness, do you agree, or am I just being a cold heartless b**h. I have his mother on the phone crying at me telling me that I
"have to be strong" and that
"He thinks you have thrown him out"
( he is staying with her ATM bujt she is elderly so not a long term solution)
I am sat here lookign at a packet of AD's thinking to start them ot not. Part of me thinks yes, at least the might help and then I think but I am experiencing a NORMAL reaction to a horribel situation, I don't need drugs to provide an emotional suit of armour I need the abuse to stop .
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AIBU?
AIBU to go on AD becasue of my DH's behaviour ??
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kitty4paws · 29/06/2011 22:12
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