I don't know if I am over-reacting or am well within my rights to be furious;
I got a phone call today in work to let me know that my 22mo DS had been sat reading a book with one of his "friends" when he had started to wimper, on closer inspection she noticed that his top was wet and when she checked she found THREE bite marks on his upper arm. She says to me "They haven't really left a mark but I just thought I ought to let you know, he cried a little bit but not much, he's calmed down now" So I try not to bite her fucking head off enquire how it is that someone has bitten him three times without anybody noticing and she doesn't really give me a straight answer but kind of "uhmms" and "ahhs" and finishes by saying "Well your DS is always so well behaved and quiet he doesn't make much fuss" - No so you just go ahead and leave him to get eaten alive by these gobshites other kids?
Cut to 7 o clock, bath time - I get DS undressed and notice 2 MASSIVE bite marks on his upper arm - Very red and bruised, sore to the touch, I can pretty much make out every tooth that child has in their head!
Don't really know what to do - Am sick of whinging about the bloody place - Don't get me wrong, I know full well that kids bite, my darling zombie child son went through a stage of biting - its the staff I'm angry with, how could they not have noticed he was being bitten - I don't for one minute believe that he didn't cry, he is a bit of a wuss when it comes to pain and that must have seriously stung!
I feel stuck now, the only other nurseries locally are all full up and the 3 childminders (just to see if the grass was greener) I went to see a few weeks ago are also full - I've been into the nursery to talk about my worries previously and they have a sort of nonchelant attitude to everything - What worries me most is that they are expanding and taking on more kids come September - Am I being dramatic when I worry that my DS will end up lost in the crowd because he is a bit on the quiet side?
Or am I just being pathetic?
Sorry this is so long - I felt I needed to get it off my chest
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To be angry at DS's nursery not noticing another child biting him - 3 times?!?
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ChunkyMonkeyMother · 29/06/2011 20:54
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