I expect you will all say yes but anyway.
Back story: He moved out last week after and argument, I let him come back on the terms that he tries EXTREMELY hard to sort himself out.
Before this he would spend money out of my account on things he shouldn't without asking me. He lies, pretty much constantly. He has depression and can't hold down a job.
But he is currently on a work trial through Jobcentre for two weeks, with the flu but it still going.
To me this shows he is putting the effort in so I was really happy until about 5 minutes ago...
So I just checked by bank and he has AGAIN spent money out without asking me on computer games.
Just checked his bank account and there are even more.
Is there anyway I can stop this? Or is it best just to tell him to shove off =/?
Don't get me wrong I love him a lot but every time I give him another chance he just fucks up again and again or always has some excuse why.
I feel like I am dealing with another child.
If we had the money to waste it wouldn't bother me but I am always on the edge of being able to pay everything every month and he doesn't seem to care.
Not sure if he is just selfish or has a major problem (more than he already has anyway).
Sorry if this is all over the place, just a bit stressed... again =/.
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To keep letting him off and giving him more chances?
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MetalSian · 28/06/2011 14:33
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