I'm fairly new to MN so apologies if I've posted in the wrong section. I'd really like some honest advice.
My MIL is a kind, generous person and a doting granny. However, she has recently moved to a smaller house which is not child safe. Added to which she has lots of dogs and cats and FIL smokes a lot. She has no real cleaning routine and the house is dirty. Not untidy - we're more untidy - but dirty.She has collected lots of little toys for the kids but they're really dirty too. She has a small patch of grass outside which all the dogs use as a toilet. She always scoops up the poo before we visit but IMHO it still stinks. My DCs are 4,2 and 1 and the youngest still puts everything in her mouth.
MIL is a wonderful, keen babysitter but has always had the kids at her old, bigger house, (which was safer and didn't feel so dirty), or by preference at our house. We only live 1 mile apart. This afternoon she is going to babysit for a couple of hours and has asked us to bring the kids to her. I am loathe to leave them there and am tempted, (cowardly) to make an excuse and cancel. Am I being too precious and if not what should I do/say?
NB - I've popped the DCs in front of the telly to post this but am going to release them into the garden now. I'll have to pop on and off MN while supervising them.
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not to want my children to go to granny's house?
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keepcalmandeatcake · 26/06/2011 10:39
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