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Totally furious as well as very hurt and upset. Been together almost 5 years and he has always been a snorer, especially when drinking. Not usually a problem as I leave for spare room when it gets too bad. However when we have people staying over or are visiting the various in laws I usually end up on the sofa after trying to ignore and sleep through it for many hours (it even wakes me up through ear plugs. A real shake the vibrations if the house style.)
Anyway about a year ago I end up sleeping on the bathroom floor of his brothers house, curled around the toilet desperately trying to get some sleep before the long drive home (I always drive as don't trust him after drinking so much the night before. Couldn't use their sofa as they had just installed a monster noisy fish tank in the lounge)
A couple of days later he said that when he knew he was wasted he would just stay on the sofa as it made no difference to him- he can sleep anywhere any time.
A year later he has not done this once.
Last night his bro was over and as usual they got very drunk together. He came to bed about two and woke me up about 30 times in 3 hours. He wouldnt even turn on to his side even when I begged him to (he is worse on his back)
I came downstairs but it isn't very comfy and I was so upset I couldn't sleep. Got more angry and hurt as I lay there, and decided to go and wake him up to give him a tast of his own medicine (normally i tiptoe out so as not to disturb him.) Anyway he gets up, grabs the boat keys and leaves without a word to go and sleep on the boat.
I'm so hurt and upset. This prob happens about once a month when bro is here or we visit him- and I wish just occasionally he would give me a thought. I also work in an office whereas he works from home and can have a lie in if needed. Ambu?
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QuestionTime · 26/06/2011 06:03
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TheSecondComing ·
26/06/2011 21:09
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