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To refuse to let my husband tell my mother that my dad has been meeting with women in hotel rooms to spank them?

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MrGimpy Sat 25-Jun-11 00:09:53

My husband and I recently went to stay with my parents for a week. Long story short, we were having a flick through my Dad's Filofax (bad I know) and found various usernames and passwords for websites which turned out to be forums for people who enjoy spanking. On these forums, we found evidence that my Dad has been meeting women in hotel rooms for about the last 7 years to spank them and also possibly have sex with them. He has also been buying canes and toys from Ebay. My husband wants to tell my mother about it, but I have banned him from doing so. Am I being unreasonable?

Glitterknickaz Sat 25-Jun-11 00:10:42


tethersend Sat 25-Jun-11 00:12:57

People like this make me sick.

A Filofax?

FutureNannyOgg Sat 25-Jun-11 00:13:10

Must be friday.

On the off chance this is genuine, I would say this here dilemma is why snooping in filofaxes is not a good plan....

midlandsmumof4 Sat 25-Jun-11 00:18:20

Del Boy-Only fools & Horses....grin.

worraliberty Sat 25-Jun-11 00:21:28

How do you know your Mum doesn't meet up with him and the other women for a good spanking sesh? shock

Have you checked her Filo Fax? grin

RobF Sat 25-Jun-11 00:22:11

I didn't know people still had filofaxes.

Why would your husband tell your mother about it? What possible good could it do? Maybe she already knows?

tethersend Sat 25-Jun-11 00:24:02

OP, does your dad arrange to meet women by calling them on his mobile phone?

clappyhands Sat 25-Jun-11 00:24:36

the joys of it not being a school night

will it be like this all summer?

Binfullofmaggotsonthe45 Sat 25-Jun-11 00:25:00

He probaby gets women to spank his naked cheeks with the filofax.

Therefore you have fingered your fathers bottom.

HowlingBitch Sat 25-Jun-11 00:35:42

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usualsuspect Sat 25-Jun-11 00:38:11

Have you bypassed the parental controls on your internet?

ChaosTrulyReigns Sat 25-Jun-11 00:40:21

Can anyone explain to me very slowly in simple terms what the procedure is and what pleasure is gained from spankling.

[plays along]

c0rn551Lk Sat 25-Jun-11 00:42:00

is your mum not curious about the cane shaped parcels?

Binfullofmaggotsonthe45 Sat 25-Jun-11 00:42:18

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Sausagesarenottheonlyfruit Sat 25-Jun-11 00:57:41

Binfull, you're positively aflame tonight!
<gets all flustered>

<spanks self with fish slice>

Andrewofgg Sat 25-Jun-11 08:07:14


Bloodymary Sat 25-Jun-11 08:14:20

A long long time ago I knew an 'escort', and it is amazing how common this is in older men.

The tales she used to tell, tho that is another thread entirely!

bellavita Sat 25-Jun-11 08:16:23

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MrGimpy Sat 25-Jun-11 12:53:32

Your responses are hilarious: but though I changed some minor details, this is not a joke. He does have a Filofax (still likes to think of himself as some kind of high-powered businessman), which was left open in the living room. I found it quite difficult to look at him for the rest of the visit. I stumbled across some similar things in his internet history when I was in my early teens, and had blocked out the memory quite successfully until now.

The likes of the 'British spanking' website were next to a list of supermarket and bank log-ins, perhaps in an attempt to confuse my mother. She is just managing to tolerate him at the moment; we have only ever worked as a family when he is away. I suppose he wants to tell her so she doesn't waste the rest of her life on a cheat.

Anyway, though he's SAID on these forums, in posts and a few PMs, that he's met up with these women, how likely is it that this is :S. There are a few scribbled mobile numbers in the Filofax too, but no solid evidence of an arranged meeting. As well as the previously mentioned whips and toys, he called himself an 'experienced spanker' and has bought things like stockings on Ebay to use as gifts (?!)...

Binfullofmaggotsonthe45 Sat 25-Jun-11 13:06:05

Well why not log onto one of these websites as a "spankee" and contact him. See how far he goes? Then when you turn up, he'll probably stop.

He sounds very arrogant.

I'd give him 5 of the best with a cricket bat.

MrGimpy Sat 25-Jun-11 13:11:15

My other half suggested honey-potting. I don't think I could handle the awkwardness. I think I'd feel guilty too, strangely.

LittleMissFlustered Sat 25-Jun-11 13:15:13

Have you been reading this ? grin

Binfullofmaggotsonthe45 Sat 25-Jun-11 13:18:31

Do you mean honey trap?

dadof2ofthem Sat 25-Jun-11 13:19:13

nothing quite like the sound of a cane being thrashed against firm young buttocks!

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