I recently moved away from my home town, and miss my family terribly.
Family are having a get together tomorrow, which I was intending on going back down for, and have been really looking forward to.
However, I had to go to the doctors yesterday as I've been feeling dizzy and sick, and he diagnosed labyrthnitis, which is basically an inflamed inner ear which might have been caused by a viral infection, or a cold, or something similar.
Now, someone in my family is a few months pregnant. Obviously I don't want to do anything to put her or the baby at risk, so I asked my doctor about it - he said it wasn't contagious, and in any case, there was no evidence that it was harmful for the baby if mum caught it.
I let the pregnant family member know to see what she said - she said as it's not contagious totally fine.
However, another member of the family has said they think I should stay away to be on the safe side, and I now feel like I can't go, as I don't want people to look at me badly and think I'm putting anyone at risk by going.
I am sooo gutted, I am actually in fits of tears. I know it sounds silly, but I feel like I am not wanted and that it is really unfair as the DOCTOR said it was fine, and everything I've looked at online said it is fine, and pregnant family member said it is fine, but I can't go now because I know there will be at least 1 person there thinking I am being selfish and that I shouldn't be there. :( :( :(
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Jodyisagirlsmane · 24/06/2011 16:55
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