I think I know the answer to this but just want to check with the MN Jury
Have been emailing with an apparently-normal bloke on GSM for a week or so. He ticks many boxes - at least from what I can tell from his profile.
But... a couple of days ago we were talking about jobs, and all he would tell me was that he worked 'in government'. That's it. Wouldn't divulge anything more, even when I started to gently take the piss about the fact he was being so cloak-and-dagger about it.
That's a big red flag, isn't it? Surely even if he did have a genuinely 'sensitive' job he'd have a mundane and believable cover story, right?
Or have years of fruitless online dates finally tipped my paranoia-ometer way into the red?
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
to not date a man who won't tell me what he does for a living?
116 replies
SpareOhs · 22/06/2011 10:22
OP posts:
Lady1nTheRadiator ·
22/06/2011 10:25
This reply has been deleted
Message withdrawn at poster's request.
babybarrister ·
22/06/2011 10:28
This reply has been deleted
Message withdrawn at poster's request.
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
BeerTricksPotter ·
22/06/2011 10:39
This reply has been deleted
Message withdrawn at poster's request.
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.