Planned this morning to go out for an evening meal, me, dh and ds. Would probably have gone earlyish as we didnt really have much in the way of lunch.
Then later dh's mate phoned asking us to dinner, so we just decided to all meet up and go to the place we had decided on earlier. Just a casual pub meal.
Anyway, dh just came in from working in the garden saying he "doesnt want to go out anymore" as he is getting ito what he is doing in the garden. He suggested I go out and get a "chippy tea" and to just get what "I feel like" and he'll have that. No other clues as to what he actually wants to eat.
Turns out his mate has phoned and he isnt going anymore either.
I dont want a bloody chippy tea. I have 1) been looking forward to going out and 2 ) am on a low carb diet so was looking forward to a steak and salad (and wont and cant eat a chippy meal). DS was looking forward to going out too.
Should I just say "fuck him", leave him gardening and take ds out, just him and me?
Yes, like Sharey said. Don't sulk, just say Me and DS were looking forward to it, so we'll see you later. I've only been out to eat with a DS on his own a couple of times (usually lunch after a hosp appt) but they have been lovely times
I wouldn't go and get his chips though. He can go himself, or phone out for something.
The only slight reluctance I might have is if the work he's doing in the garden is something you've been nagging him to do for ages