I'm not sure, maybe I am.
We have just moved to Sydney - two weeks ago. I've spent the last two weeks looking for childcare and have just found some I'm happy with. The dcs ( 2 and 4) are very unsettled with the move and, I think, being dragged around to cc centres. They keep saying they want to go home . it is going to be hard and slow to settle dd into cc as she is very clingy.
Anyway, I had booked a trip on my frequent flyer points for us all to nz to see pil in three weeks time. I did this long before our move was planned and was looking forward to it, although I thought it might be a bit stressful. But now I think it will be really unsettling and upsetting for dcs. I want to postpone the trip ( if I can) to later in the year so that the dcs get a chance to settle here before we drag them somewhere else.
Dh says his mother will be devastated - and I think he is right because she has been very excited about our visit.
So, Aibu?
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tryingtoleave · 17/06/2011 12:55
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