Resent is probably too strong a word. I will get him something, but it's always such a struggle and he doesn't make it easy at all.
He's 63 with no hobbies, interests or social life (nor does he want them) and all he does is work. Everyone struggles with what to get him for Birthday and Christmas, and I've got this extra one to come up with too. Usually I end up getting him an Amazon voucher to get a book with but it seems really naff. I live too far away to do anything physically like take him out for lunch or something.
My brother has apparently stopped bothering with both mother's and father's day. As a result my mum insisted I got her nothing for mother's day, because my brother doesn't bother. I got her a card, and a little present, and told her she's going to be a grandma so she was happy with that. I feel I can't keep asking her what I can get my dad, especially as I got her 'nothing' for mother's day.
I can't get my dad 'nothing' (even though my brother will), because my dad is highly sensitive and will fall out with me over it but won't ever fall out with my brother. This kind of annoys me as he never does anything for my birthday (leaves it all to mum) and usually forgets it so I don't even get a text or anything. It all seems a bit one-way. I'd want to get him something if he was easier to buy for but it's a thrice-yearly problem that I panic about for ages beforehand and put off acting on til the last minute like I have this time.
What do you get your 'elderly' and difficult parents (if anything)?
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MyDogHatesMe · 16/06/2011 13:03
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