He is 3 and a half has recently started at a new nursery (daycare, not school). He didn't settle as easily as i would have expected as he was upset when he wet himself while napping twice and his keyworker rather than ensuring he went to the loo beforehand tried to make him put on a nappy - he didn't like this at all, has been out of them since just over 2. He doesn't really need a nap anymore so now he just doesn't have one.
Soon after he was finally totally happy to go to nursery, but then he did a poo there for the first time. He asked his keyworker to wipe his bum and she told him to do it himself. he was then v upset again about going to nursery, even told me he wasn't feeling well (pulling a sicky at 3!!). I figured that this is what it was about, had a chat with him and told him i would talk to her - he was then totally happy to go off to nursery.
When i spoke to her she said that they always encourage the older children to do it themselves, and then finish off to ensure they are clean. She obviously didn't explain this well to him, and also didn't clean him up very well as he had an itchy bum on the walk home IFSWIM.
He is generally an easy going, happy little boy. had a bit of upheaval with arrival of a brother 9 months ago, moving house 3 months ago, with it having to leave a nursery where he was really happy. She knows all this. So far he has taken everything in his stride as well as or better than could be expected.
AIBU to expect his nursery keyworker to be a bit more sensitive and show some common sense around my son's loo going... It annoys me that this is an issue when he has enough on and this area in particular has never been any bother at all
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to expect nursery staff to help my son wipe his bum?
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bumpertobumper · 16/06/2011 11:19
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