I am part of a small group who all went to antenatal classes together. Two of the women are SAHM at the moment and I do consider them friends. I work part time and have two days at home with my DD and my days off are precious time to spend with her and to see baby friends/do social activities as my job is very full on the rest of the week. So I usually go to a group on a Tues morning with these two friends, today at the end of the group (11.30)they were talking about going to the park in the afternoon. It was a beautiful day so I said I would join them and we agreed to meet around 2.30-3ish in order to give children time for lunch and naps. They said they would text when setting off as they live nearer the park than me. At 1.30 I receive a text from one saying that she went to the park on the way home from the group and would be there until 2.30 and then was going home to see her mum, I replied saying that I wouldn't make it for then as DD was still asleep (she would know that this would be the case). The other then texts me at 3pm saying that she didn't know if she would make the park as she had decided to take her daughter to get her feet measured and would let me know if she could soon. At this point, I replied saying that I would make other arrangements for the afternoon. Now I know that this seems petty but is it? This isn't the first time they have done this to me and much as I love seeing them and their children (and I really do enjoy spending time with them) it is really annoying to cancel plans like this at the last minute. I have other local friends and had I known that I was free earlier I would have likely been able to arrange a park playdate with them. I don't know if they're being rude or just unthinking? I don't think it's worth saying anything but it makes me reluctant to make plans with them again. What do people think?
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to think that my friends are being rude or just unthinking?
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Gizboss · 14/06/2011 20:41
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