Urrgh - feeling like a crap mum at the moment and wondering if I've been heavy-handed on the consequence front...
DD (aged 4, nearly 5) has just been to her friend's birthday party. They were given party bags as they were going out. DD asked if she could have her sweets and I said that she could eat them when we got home (we only live 2 mins round the corner).
DD then threw a huge tantrum about how she wanted them NOW. I told her that if she continued speaking to me like that, she wouldn't get them today at all. More screaming at this point, so I told her that she wouldn't be getting them today.
On hearing this, she then hit me. I made her sit in time out and told her that since she had hit me, she wouldn't be getting any birthday cake today either, but she could earn her sweets and cake back tomorrow if I saw some good behaviour.
I then had screaming and tantrumming all the way home. I told her that if she didn't stop, she would be going straight to bed when we got home. During the screaming and tantrumming, she hit me again. She tried to wriggle out of holding my hand when I insisted she held it, then she tried to bite me.
She is now in bed. She's not had a bed time story. I did kiss her goodnight and tell her that I loved her before I left the room. She is now screaming and crying in her room.
Don't think I've handled it well at all :(
Bleuurrgh :(
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Servalan · 14/06/2011 18:36
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