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AIBU?

to ditch DH on Father's day and go on a jolly without him?

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AtYourCervix · 14/06/2011 16:38

got a chance to go to the theatre with the DDs. something DH really wouldn't be interested in. (v cheap tickets - normally waaaaay out of my price range)

Should we go?

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MrSpoc · 14/06/2011 16:39

yes if you can do something special for your husband on the day that he would love. (my wife has booked a diving experiance for me). can you do something similar?

VelvetSnow · 14/06/2011 16:40

Yeah - I bet DH would love a fathers day all to himself....he could finally do them jobs round the house

Go!

Bluemoonrising · 14/06/2011 16:42

urely the only person that can answer that is your DH? Personally it would bother me not a jot if the kids went off and did something with their dad on mothers day, it means nothing to me. I'm a mother every day, and my kids tell me that they appreciate me in different ways. Last night they told me that they wished my course would finish as I'm not spending enough time with them - they are teenagers. That means more to me than any contrived day.

Bluemoonrising · 14/06/2011 16:42

*Surely

AtYourCervix · 14/06/2011 16:42

i could jazz it up as a whole day off on his own. get him some bubble bath and beer and leave him in peace. he'd like that.

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howabout · 14/06/2011 16:43

My DH would see day without us all as the perfect Father's Day gift as long as we came home safe and sound and told him how much we missed him / how much he had achieved without us etc etc. Would the reverse not pretty much summarise your perfect Mother's Day?

MrSpoc · 14/06/2011 16:46

I have to say that if you buggetred off all day then as a father i would be pissed off, its meant to be his day but if you planned something special for him then it shows you thought about him.

VelvetSnow · 14/06/2011 16:46

Just make sure he doesn't drink the bubble bath and bathe in the beer.

grovel · 14/06/2011 16:47

Does your DH like cricket? Have you got Sky?

If yes to both he'll happy as a pig in shit - there's a Test match on. Leave him a 6 pack of beer, a pork pie and some chocolate biscuits.

piprabbit · 14/06/2011 16:47

I'd go with the 'day off' approach. DH would make a half-hearted protest, but be secretly delighted to be left alone in blissful peace (as would I - give half a chance).

VelvetSnow · 14/06/2011 16:48

WADR MrSpoc, it is his day, to do with as he pleases...he might want to sit in front of tv watching Come Dine With Me, with his hands down his pants for all we know...

The fact that he has a whole day to do as he pleases is enough IMO, personally I'd love that!

fuzzpigFriday · 14/06/2011 16:49

Ooh yes, you could pointedly leave out some takeaway menus for him and your card number, or something.

I'm working on fathers day :( I do every other Sunday in a charity shop so I'm out 10-5ish. His older DDs are staying for the weekend though so we/they are having a massive board game/wii/DVD-fest with lots of crappy junk food, I doubt he'll even notice I've gone as their eyes will be glued to the screen (one of his presents is Harry Potter Lego wii game)

On Saturday though we are going to the local level crossing because they have this old signal box thing, and they open it to the public a few times a year. Oh the excitement :o

AtYourCervix · 14/06/2011 16:51

he does indeed enjoy cricket, come dine with me, hands in pants and would also enjoy the signal box.

A day off for DH it si then!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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VelvetSnow · 14/06/2011 16:52

Let us know how he responds.

I'll eat my feet if he goes in a huff

ShoutyHamster · 14/06/2011 16:53

Hope you plan on getting there early to beat the hordes fuzzpig

fuzzpigFriday · 14/06/2011 20:06

:o yes I'm sure we will be fighting our way in. Maybe we should go to the Asda next door first and get supplies for the queue?

AtYourCervix · 14/06/2011 20:33

DH was very pleased to get rid of us for the day. anly problem is i can either take mother or DD2s friend but not both. who should I take?

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PinkSchmoo · 14/06/2011 20:38

Mother and then you have a bit of a break too!

VelvetSnow · 14/06/2011 21:26

agree with PinkSchmoo.

AtYourCervix · 14/06/2011 21:34

but mother is bonkers eccentric and DD2s mate is lovely. although mother may pay for train. and she doesn't get out much.

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Bluemoonrising · 15/06/2011 07:27

Personally I'd take DD2s mate. Not because of what you have said, but because I think it is more important to me to make a day out special for my daughter than for my mother, and if there has to be a choice, my daughter wins.

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squeakytoy · 15/06/2011 07:35

I can just imagine the outrage if the situation where reversed on Mothers Day

The sense of entitlement that day in AIBU was hilarious!

Deaddei · 15/06/2011 08:02

Well I think both Fathers Day and Mothers Day are a load of bollocks...

Omigawd · 15/06/2011 08:10

as squeaky toy says..if situations were reversed this would be Emotional Abuse from an NPD bastard of the highest order!

In reality DH would probably be delighted with a bj and buggering off with the kids for the day ;)

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