Sorry for any typos, am on my phone.
Since starting school in Jan dd seems to be having a few friendship problems. I was accosted by a mum in a playground once and went to see the teacher who told me it was a non issue and the problem seems to have resolved and the girls are playing fine. Then there was another incident where two girls came up to her on the way to school and started telling her she was annoying and talked too much and was bossy. Dd was very upset, so I went to see the teacher, because the mum of one of these girls told me her child had a problem with mine and she had been to see the teacher about it. Not so much of a problem that this girl didn't want to come over to play, or stopped asking for dd to play though it seems... Even if what was reported to the teacher was that she didn't want to go to school because of it.
Teacher informed me one of those girls had slapped mine round the face in class time. The girl had been tidying up, because it was tidy up time.. and mine had gone over and picked up what she had been picking up... So she slapped my dd. Teacher said my dd should have asked so it was her fault. She said she was going to get her observed.
I heard nothing for weeks. I help out in the class with reading etc once a week and as I hadn't heard anything asked the teaching assistant who said she knew it had happened. It onky lasted about 10 mins and she thinks the whole thing has been blown out of proportion by parents and that my child plays fine and isnt a problem.
Dd also does several out of school activities and goes to a childminder and noone has ever said anything like this about her. We went on holiday recently and she had made friends with a mixture of children within an hour of arriving.
Got home from school to find a letter in the bookbag saying a place has been allocated to dd at the lunchtine nurture club so she can work on her interpersonal skills and lunch is the same but they sit seperated from their class.
I am fuming.
I feel the teacher should have spoken to me and I'd like to know quite why she needs a place in this club when children slapping her and calling her names don't.
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to be hacked off with the school about this.
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