It feels good to get this off of my chest; basically I've known a friend since NCT antenatal days, basic background is that she's bipolar and there have been loads of strange incidents since our respective nearly 4yos DSs were born because basically she has no idea of 'boundaries'. Her DS is a whiner quite frankly, he's also incredibly spiteful to my DS, which was evidenced on holiday last year when he tried to push him into a swimming pool and down some concrete steps. I argued with her about him and she got upset.
I must confess that although I've tried to be supportive over the last few years I'm at the end of my tether as she tries to 'take over' aspects of my life I struggle with. My DH and family absolutely hate her.
The last straw was recently when she visited, her DS had been a pain all day whilst playing with DS and DH who was off work for the day. I was removing my DS's wet trousers near the open back door when her DS pushed him back and if I hadn't grabbed his arm in time my DS's head would have hit the concrete patio. She didn't really tell her DS off enough in my opinion given the severity of the situation; she never does.
Right, there's a playdate and her DS's party coming up. My DH told me to avoid both. I want to but do you think I should sit down and discuss his behaviour with her in a frank way? My DS's not perfect and may have special needs (currently going through the assessment) but I can't condone these attacks any longer
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gerbiltamer · 09/06/2011 11:54
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09/06/2011 15:46
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